Shooting victims honored at memorial
02:27 - Source: CNN

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Aurora, Colorado CNN  — 

Stories of heroism, zest for life, a birthday celebration that turned tragic have unfolded as family and friends recall loved ones killed in Friday’s mass shooting at a Colorado movie theater.

Also emerging was the story of Hugo, who was born Tuesday.

Almost all of the 12 victims were young – including a 6-year-old girl who had just learned to swim.

The cause of death in all cases is related to gunshot wounds, according to the Arapahoe County Coroner’s Office.

Remembering the victims through photos, memories

Jonathan T. Blunk, 26

Blunk served for five years in the U.S. Navy. He had been planning to fly Saturday to Reno, Nevada, to see his wife, Chantel, his 4-year-old daughter and his 2-year-old son.

“We were going to have a family day,” Chantel Blunk said.

Instead, she put away the dress her daughter had picked out to wear to the airport. “I tried to tell her we wouldn’t see Daddy anymore, but that he would still love us and look over us.”

The couple married in 2007 and separated in 2010, she said. They remained on good terms after Jonathan moved to Colorado. Blunk died shielding his girlfriend from the gunfire inside the theater.

Chantel Blunk said she wants her husband to have a military funeral. She said she will remember Jonathan’s humor, spontaneity and attention to family. “We love him and he is going to be remembered as a hero,” she said.

Video: Blunk was a hero

Alexander J. Boik, 18

A Facebook page was created in memory of Boik, a Gateway High School student who was at the theater with his girlfriend and a friend.

A.J. Boik colorado victim

“AJ was an awesome kid and a truly Inspirational teammate,” one Facebook entry said. “You cant find someone with a brighter smile and more positive outlook on life. There to help you up when your down and One to carry on life with such an intelligence.”

Boik was an independent distributor for Organo Gold, a coffee company, and lived in Aurora, according to what appears to be his personal Facebook page.

James Crofter, father of Jordan Crofter, Boik’s friend who survived the shooting, said Jordan and Boik played lacrosse together. Boik’s girlfriend also was in the theater. She and Jordan found each other outside the theater, but Boik did not make it out.

One victim’s account: What happened inside the theater

Air Force Staff Sgt. Jesse E. Childress, 29

Childress, an Air Force reservist, was a cybersystems operator on active duty with the 310th Force Support Squadron at Buckley Air Force Base in Colorado. He was from Thornton, Colorado.

Jesse Childress, 29, an Air Force reservist, was a cybersystems operator on active duty.

“Jesse was an invaluable part of the 310th family,” said Lt. Col. Pat Walsh, who was Childress’ supervisor, according to The Washington Post. “He literally touched everyone in the wing – over 1,000 people.”

Three of Childress’ Air Force colleagues traveled from Buckley to honor him at a memorial near the theater, The Denver Post reported.

“He was a huge part of our unit, and this is a terrible loss. The person that did this was an incredible coward,” said Air Force Chief Master Sergeant Schwald, according to the Denver newspaper. She declined to give her first name.

Gordon W. Cowden, 51

Gordon Cowden colorado victim

Cowden took his two teenage children to the theater. His children escaped unharmed, according to California’s Ventura County Star.

A family spokesman described Cowden as a “loving father, outdoorsman and small-business owner,” according to the Star.

“Cowden was a true Texas gentleman that loved life and his family. A quick-witted world traveler with a keen sense of humor, he will be remembered for his devotion to his children and for always trying his best to do the right thing, no matter the obstacle.”

Focusing on the victims, not the shooter

Jessica Ghawi, 24

Jessica Ghawi moved to Denver to try to break into the television market there.

Aspiring sports reporter Ghawi narrowly avoided a shooting in Toronto just last month – an incident that prompted her to reflect on life on her blog.

The Toronto shooting at the Eaton Centre left one person dead and seven wounded.

“I was shown how fragile life was on Saturday. I saw the terror on bystanders’ faces. I saw the victims of a senseless crime. I saw lives change,” she wrote at the time. “I was reminded that we don’t know when or where our time on Earth will end. When or where we will breathe our last breath.”

Ghawi, who also went by the name Jessica Redfield, grew up in Texas and interned at Ticket 760, a sports radio station in San Antonio, before moving to Denver to try to break into the television market there.

A memorial service is scheduled for July 28 in San Antonio.

Brother: Ghawi an aspiring sports writer

Petty Officer 3rd Class John Thomas Larimer, 27

"Sailors were really drawn to his calming demeanor," Cmdr. Jeffrey Jakuboski said of Larimer.

Like his father and grandfather, Larimer chose to join the U.S. Navy. He was serving at his first post, said his father, Scott Larimer.

A Navy notification team officially informed the family in Crystal Lake, Illinois, around midnight Saturday, a statement from the family said.

“He was an outstanding shipmate, a valued member of our Navy team and an extremely dedicated sailor,” said Cmdr. Jeffrey Jakuboski. “Sailors were really drawn to his calming demeanor and exceptional work ethic. He was also known as that quiet, extremely competent professional.”

“He was doing extraordinarily well” and had a bright future ahead of him, Jakuboski said.

His unit, part of U.S. Fleet Cyber Command/U.S. 10th Fleet, was stationed at Buckley AFB. Larimer had been in the service for about one year. He had not seen combat.

“We send our thoughts and prayers out to the families of the other victims and those still recovering in the hospital,” his family said. “We love you, John, and we will miss you always.”

Tales of heroism abound from tragedy

Matthew R. McQuinn, 27

"I know he's a hero," said Matthew McQuinn's stepfather. "He and Sam (his girlfriend) were very much in love."

McQuinn died trying to provide cover for his girlfriend, Samantha Yowler, during the shooting, according to family attorney Rob Scott.

Yowler and her brother Nick, who also was trying to protect her from the bullets, both survived.

Samantha Yowler, wounded in the knee, is expected to make a full recovery, Scott said. Nick was unharmed.

McQuinn and Samantha Yowler grew up in the Miami Valley region of Ohio, according to CNN affiliate WKEF. The two had been dating for a couple of years.

McQuinn graduated from Vandalia-Butler High School in 2004. The couple met at a Springfield, Ohio, Target store and moved last November to Denver, the Dayton Daily News reported.

The victim’s stepfather, David Jackson, told CNN Dayton affiliate WHIO that the couple was planning to move back to Springfield soon.

“I know he’s a hero,” said Jackson. “He and Sam were very much in love and planning their life together. I am sure they were thinking very seriously of getting married soon.”

iReport: McQuinn seized the day

Micayla C. Medek, 23

Medek wrote: "I'm a simple independent girl who's just trying to get her life together while still having fun."

Medek, known to her friends as Cayla, was “very spiritual and close to God,” cousin Anita Busch told CNN. Her family is tightly knit, Busch said.

Medek’s Facebook page describes her as a “sandwich artist/closer” at Subway in Aurora, and a student of general studies at the Community College of Aurora with plans to graduate in 2015.

She lived in Westminster, Colorado, but was from Aurora, Busch said. “I’m a simple independent girl who’s just trying to get her life together while still having fun,” Medek wrote on her Facebook page.

Busch said the famil