Story highlights
- Dale Benzine loses more than 130 pounds after bariatric surgery
- Surgery puts his Type 2 diabetes into remission and lowers his BP, cholesterol
- "I'm 57 going on 37," Benzine says with a laugh
Debbie Benzine lost her first husband to heart disease when he was 44. His death left her to raise a young child alone. For 16 years, she stayed single because, "going through it once was enough for me."
When she met Dale Benzine, he weighed around 300 pounds but was in pretty good physical shape. Yet over time, she watched as the former football player started taking pills for his high cholesterol and high blood pressure, more for anxiety and gout, and insulin shots for his Type 2 diabetes.
"His girth got bigger, as did his neck, which caused sleep apnea," she remembers. After the Atlanta couple got married, she found herself buying him bigger and bigger clothes.
When her insurance company announced that bariatric surgery, or weight-loss surgery, would be covered under the couple's plan, she told her husband about it. "I knew he had to do something, but I wasn't sure he was ready for something so drastic," she says.
He was.
The doctor had flat-out told Benzine: "Lose weight or die." He was tired of taking so many medications and not having enough energy to simply live life.
"One day ... you find out that you're 56 years old and if you want to see 66 you better do something about it," he says.
There are several types of bariatric surgery. With gastric bypass, a new stomach about the size of a golf ball is created by cutting across the top of the stomach and connecting the smaller pouch with the intestines.
Another type involves placing an adjustable band around the upper portion of the stomach. The device can be tightened or loosened at subsequent doctor's visits. It can help patients feel fuller faster and eat less. Unlike gastric bypass, adjustable gastric band procedures can be easily reversed.
Benzine decided to do the gastric bypass surgery. Although doctors aren't sure why, studies have shown gastric bypass puts Type 2 diabetes into remission in most obese patients. Dale also didn't want to have the option of reversing the surgery.
"In the back of your mind you can always take the band off," he says of the lap-band procedure. "I didn't want to be able to go back."
Getting approved for the surgery was more difficult than he expected. Many people who have bariatric surgery gain the weight back, so insurance companies are often wary of paying for the procedure. Benzine saw his primary care physician, a nutritionist, a cardiologist, a pulmonologist, a gastroenterologist and a psychiatrist -- all of whom had to sign off.
The psychiatrist told Benzine he rejected upward of half his patients because they weren't prepared to make the necessary life changes after the surgery. Benzine admitted that 10 years ago he wouldn't have been ready either.
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