To get your spouse off the couch and moving, start exercising yourself
Exercise creates feel-good endorphins that spur love life
Having a workout buddy to cheer you on is a well-known prescription for success. Even better is if that buddy is your spouse.
New research shows if you improve your workout regimen, your loved one may be more likely to do the same. “When it comes to physical fitness, the best peer pressure to get moving could be coming from the person who sits across from you at the breakfast table,” said Laura Cobb, a doctoral student and co-author of the research, in a statement.
The study, by Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health, followed the physical activity of 15,792 middle-aged adults between two doctor’s visits. In the first visit, the couples were asked if they met the American Heart Association’s exercise recommendations: 150 minutes per week of moderate intensity exercise, or 75 minutes per week of vigorous intensity exercise. Forty-five percent of the husbands and 33% of the wives reported exercising at this level.
On the second visit, the question was repeated. Researchers discovered that when wives met exercise goals first, husbands were 70% more likely to step up their game. It worked the other way around too, but not as well: only 40% of wives were likely to meet exercise goals after their husbands did.
These results mirror those from a recent study that followed more than 3,700 couples who were married or living together over a 13 year span. All participants in that University College London study were over age 50. Researchers found almost 70% of couples who exercised together were still doing so two years later, while only a quarter of couples who exercised separately were still working out.
Cobb would like to see the Bloomberg School of Public Health research applied to exercise intervention programs by counseling married couples together, not separately.
“We all know how important exercise is to staying healthy,” Cobb says. “This study tells us that one spouse could have a really positive impact on the other when it comes to staying fit and healthy for the long haul.”
Sharing stimulating activities has also been shown to improve marital satisfaction and reduce boredom. Add to that the endorphins – or feelings of pleasure — that exercise creates in the brain, and you’ve got a recipe for a better love life.
The type of exercise is up to you but couples activities such as tennis, ballroom dancing, couples yoga, or running and biking might be good choices for extra bonding.