What it means to be gender-fluid

Story highlights

  • Gender fluidity is when gender identity shifts between masculine and feminine
  • "Orange Is the New Black" actor Ruby Rose identifies as gender-fluid
  • Expert: Millennials are using the Internet as a guide to put a name to their gender identity

(CNN)For some people, gender is not just about being male or female; in fact, how one identifies can change every day or even every few hours.

Gender fluidity, when gender expression shifts between masculine and feminine, can be displayed in how we dress, express and describe ourselves.
    Everyone's gender exists on a spectrum, according to Dot Brauer, director of the LGBTQA Center at the University of Vermont. Progressive gender expression is the norm for the university, which offers gender-neutral bathrooms and allows students to use their preferred names.
    "If you imagine the spectrum and imagine the most feminine expression you have ever seen and most masculine you have ever seen and just sort of imagine where you are on that," Brauer said.
    Brauer, who identifies as gender-queer and prefers the pronoun "they," said gender identification is about what feels right for the person.

    Information is fluid

    "In my generation, all the information that came to me was filtered through some very sort of limited perspectives and limiting languages. So for example, if I was going to find out about gender, I was going to find out about it through health class in a curriculum that was set by the Board of Education," Brauer said.
    Since millennials grew up with the Internet, members of that generation can easily find information on topics like gender expression, added Brauer, 58.
    Lee Luxion
    Lee Luxion, who is 26 and also prefers the pronoun "they," might wake up as a man or as a woman, sometimes as both and sometimes as neither.
    "How I express it is usually how I dress, how I do my hair. But then my mannerisms change. The way I speak might change a little, too," Luxion said.
    Luxion agreed that the Internet, along with the emergence of gender-fluid celebrities such as "Orange Is the New Black's" Ruby Rose, has made millennials more comfortable with expressing their gender.
    "There shouldn't be a sense of what's normal and what is not," Luxion said. "And (with) more representation of transgender or gender-fluid or non-binary individuals, the more likely it is that we are going to feel safe to also be that publicly."
    There are lots of misconceptions about gender fluidity, according to those in the community. Being gender-fluid doesn't determine a person'