What's next when you're the one who cheated on your partner

By Ian Kerner, CNN

Updated 1757 GMT (0157 HKT) February 26, 2019

Humans are now mostly monogamous, but this has been the norm for just the past 1,000 years.<br /><br />Scientists at University College London believe monogamy emerged so males could protect their infants from other males in ancestral groups who may kill them in order to mate with their mothers.
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Humans are now mostly monogamous, but this has been the norm for just the past 1,000 years.

Scientists at University College London believe monogamy emerged so males could protect their infants from other males in ancestral groups who may kill them in order to mate with their mothers.
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Scientists in Canada recently suggested that a rise in sexually transmitted infections, as social groups became larger among early humans, would have put pressure on staying monogamous in terms of mating behavior.
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Scientists in Canada recently suggested that a rise in sexually transmitted infections, as social groups became larger among early humans, would have put pressure on staying monogamous in terms of mating behavior.
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Primates such as chimpanzees and bonobo monkeys, pictured, do not conform to a mating system and regularly engage in frequent sex with multiple partners.
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Primates such as chimpanzees and bonobo monkeys, pictured, do not conform to a mating system and regularly engage in frequent sex with multiple partners.
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Emperor penguins usually mate for one year before moving on to a new partner.
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Emperor penguins usually mate for one year before moving on to a new partner.
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Male elephant seals, or "beach masters," protect harems of more than 100 females from other males thinking of moving into their territories.
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Male elephant seals, or "beach masters," protect harems of more than 100 females from other males thinking of moving into their territories.
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Swans -- symbols of love and fidelity -- are not monogamous.
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Swans -- symbols of love and fidelity -- are not monogamous.
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Love birds mate and "love" for as long the other mate stays alive. If one dies, the other develops a bond with another individual.
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Love birds mate and "love" for as long the other mate stays alive. If one dies, the other develops a bond with another individual.
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Male lightning bugs entice mates by lighting up the night sky.
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Male lightning bugs entice mates by lighting up the night sky.
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Queen bees mate with a very small number of male bees, drones, to produce many eggs.
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Queen bees mate with a very small number of male bees, drones, to produce many eggs.
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Jumping spiders are known to "dance" for their mates, performing a complex, zigzagging flamenco-like dance to entice the females. Not only do they make moves, they actually make a rhythmic vibrating song using their body movements.
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Jumping spiders are known to "dance" for their mates, performing a complex, zigzagging flamenco-like dance to entice the females. Not only do they make moves, they actually make a rhythmic vibrating song using their body movements.
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