Searching for love in the time of coronavirus

Angelo Di Gregorio sits on his bed FaceTiming with his new beau, from his room in Verona, Italy, on March 17. With social distancing, an hour's drive might as well be a continent away.

(CNN)Jenny, a 29-year-old woman in Seattle, nursed a latte on her date with a man she'd met on the dating app Bumble.

With coronavirus cases trending in the city, he'd invited her out that Saturday for what they both knew these days might be a risky rendezvous.
Jenny, who asked that CNN leave out her last name for privacy reasons, said the Anchorhead coffee shop in the city's downtown area was much less crowded than usual.
    She and her date shared interests in sci-fi and books, and their coffee date went well. They made plans to see each other again.

      Statewide bans slowed down the romance

      But then Washington state Gov. Jay Inslee issued rules effectively shutting down bars and restaurants in the city.
      Jenny told CNN she has a high threshold for going over to a date's house and they're not at that stage yet. So for now, they're texting and making plans to play Nintendo online together.
      Two thousand miles away in Chicago, a corporate attorney had just met a man on Hinge, another dating app. For professional reasons, she asked that her name not be used in this story.
      The conversation was flowing, ranging from their favorite podcasts to which presidential candidates' campaigns they'd volunteered for. They were ready to meet face-to-face.
      But they didn't get that far.
      Illinois Gov. J.B. Pritzker issued a similar ban closing all the places where they'd might be able to meet and kick off a fledgling courtship.
      With 30 degree (Fahrenheit) temperatures in the Windy City, taking a walk or having picnic weren't the most pleasant options either.
      For now, they've settled on getting to know each other better over the phone calls.
      Now that grabbing a drink with a potential lover feels almost like a seismic risk, millions of singles reckon with a dilemma as they seek love in the time of coronavirus.
      Do you risk trying to meet someone or do you put love and intimacy on hold for weeks or even months?

      Asking the right questions

      Jenny met a man on Bumble and managed to see him before all the bars and restaurants closed in Seattle. Now the two are at a loss for where to meet on their second date.
      As of March 12, New York City Mayor Bill de Blasio wasn't ready to rule out the quest for love. He got a dating question at a press conference, and said, "It is dangerous to stop living life."
      He advised to do basic due diligence before meeting someone new.
      "I do think it's fine to have a social life but you got to exercise some smart rules, right?" De Blasio said. "If you're sick, don't go on a date. If the date is sick, don't go on the dates."
      He urged prospective lovers to err toward over-communicating about any potential symptoms, asking questions such as, "'Hi, are you sick today?'
      "So the other thing is, you know, with a date, you know, you might keep a little more distance than you might have before," de Blasio added.

      Practical tips

      For those who may be starting to catch feelings but don't want to catch coronavirus, is offering a few tips on how to spend some quality time with your special someone. The dating sevice's tips include watching a movie simultaneously over video chat together, or cooking the same meal together over video chat.
      Netflix offers a "watch together" feature, enabling viewers in two different locations to watch the same film or show together.
      And the dating app Bumble published a blog post by epidemiologist Dr. Seema Yasmin urging those on the app to avoid shaking hands if users opt to meet in person and to stay several feet away from each other.
      "If you're confined to your home for days, you certainly have more time on your hands to plan a date with someone you met on a dating app," Yasmin wrote. "But should you cancel? If you're sick, absolutely."
      Hinge told CNN that it prioritizes its users' safety and wants them "to feel prepared during this pandemic. We strongly encourage users to use their best judgment and be as safe as possible during this time, including following the latest guidelines from the World Health Organization."
      Dr. William Schaffner, an infectious disease expert at Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, had similar advice on how to keep dating, but stay illness-free. He recommends asking, "How are you feeling? Have you had any symptoms? Do you have any fever? Are you comfortable going out?
      "I think that's a reasonable thing to do," he said.
      Even with bans on group gatherings,Schaffner said that dating is still an option because it only involves two people. The trick is to enjoy each other's company while slipping away from any crowds you see.
      "Maybe going for a walk in the park and getting a cup of coffee afterward or a soda," Schaffner said. "So dating styles may have to change, but I wouldn't think two people getting together would be inappropriate. And you can have a conversation about that."

      Italy offers a preview for US relationships

      Francesca Owens bought flowers to tend on their balcony while they quarantine in place in Italy.
      The coronavirus pandemic has reached crisis levels in Italy, and offers a preview of how the American situation could develop in the coming weeks. The dating world is no different.
      Francesa Owens, a mother living with her 19-year-old daughter Antonia in Spoleto, Italy, told CNN she suffers from chronic variable immunodeficiency, and she didn't want her daughter possibly bringing Covid-19 home.
      Owens told Antonia she could either live with her boyfriend or live with her.