When teens blow off pleas to get Covid-19 vaccines, the consequences can be deadly

Lee Stonum sits on the bed of his daughter, Kennedy. He has left her bedroom untouched since the 17-year-old's death in February.

Costa Mesa, California (CNN)Kennedy Stonum, a high school junior, deflected repeated entreaties from her father to please get vaccinated against Covid-19.

"I would send her articles. I would send her studies. I would send her whatever I thought might either scare her enough about Covid to get the vaccine or allay her concerns enough about the vaccine," said Lee Stonum, 41, a public defender in Orange County, California. His mother, who lives in Cleveland, also sent emails to her granddaughter urging her to get the shots.
"She was very skilled at blowing it off," Stonum said of his only child. "It was constantly, 'OK, I'll think about it.' It was never an outright 'no.' "
    Tyler Gilreath, 20, resisted the constant nagging and cajoling of his mother, Tamra Demello, to get the Covid-19 vaccine.
      "He was one of those kids who had to make every mistake himself, because he always knew best," said Demello, 60, of Apex, North Carolina. "The more a mother's lips move, the less the ears on their male children open."
      Both young people recently died of Covid-19 -- Kennedy Stonum on February 11, Gilreath in September. The vaccines had been available to them for months before their deaths.
      Tyler Gilreath and his mother, Tamra Demello, after his high school graduation in
May 2019. He died in September at age 20.
      Parents of teenagers and young adults are familiar with this tug of war: Their kids, soon to be full-fledged adults, resist parental input and think they know what is right. They learn about Covid-19 from friends and posts on social media platforms, such as Instagram and TikTok -- not always the most accurate sources.
        Parents may have enough leverage to compel their children to get vaccinated.
        "Take their cell phone away. It would be three hours before they were lining up at the clinic," Stonum said.

        A feeling of youthful invincibility

        Covid-19 deaths among young people are uncommon, but Kennedy Stonum and Gilreath are certainly not alone: For example, an unvaccinated 15-year-old girl from Pensacola, Florida, died in September, as did an unvaccinated 16-year-old high school football player from Mississippi.
        Vaccination rates remain low among young people: Just over 57% of kids ages 12 to 17 and 62% of 18- to 24-year-olds are fully vaccinated, compared with 69% of the entire vaccine-eligible population of the United States.
        That is in part due to a feeling of youthful invincibility, amplified because the disease is far less deadly among young people than older Americans.
        Children and adolescents account for 22% of the US population but an estimated 3% of hospitalizations related to Covid-19 and less than 0.1% of Covid-19 deaths. Of the nearly 1 million people in the United States who have died of Covid-19, the vast majority have been 65 and older.
        Teen vaccine resistance is also hardened by a stream of social media posts, confusing and shifting recommendations from public health officials, and a youthful skepticism of authority, experts say.
        Kennedy Stonum "spent a lot of time on TikTok and on social media, and I think she was picking up some misinformation there," said Lee Stonum, sitting on the back patio of his home on a warm, brilliantly sunny day in late February.