Hey, everyone. For our first episode, I told you about my student loan journey and how the country's student debt got so out of control. But I really wanted to hear from all of you. And how loans have affected your life. So we opened up our phone lines.
Hi, Delyanne. My name is Meryl, and I am from Boston, I'm 33 years old and I graduated from undergrad with over a hundred thousand dollars in debt.
I just knew I needed to call Meryl back. Her story speaks to a lot of us. Hello.
Hi Meryl, I'm Delyanne. Nice to meet you.
She told me she didn't really understand how serious her student loans were until after she took a personal finance class in college.
As a part of it, we kind of had to audit our finances and then I plugged in my own numbers at that time, and then I was like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe that this is the situation that I'm in. I guess that's when I learned how interest worked and not in a good way.
When Meryl first got into Northeastern University, she was really ready to break out on her own and get started on the next chapter of her life. To her, it felt like the expense didn't matter. She stitched together financial aid, student loans and a merit scholarship. She was determined to go, but Meryl had a rough first year of college.
We got our grades back at the end of the first semester and we were like, Oh my gosh,
She didn't fail any classes. But unfortunately, her grades weren't good enough to keep her merit scholarship.
The primary emotion was just fear and shame. There was a lot of shame, and then there were some sort of panic around what are my parents going to say and what's my next step going to be?
Did you ever think about dropping out of college and trying out a different way?
No, no, I never. It was always just survival mode of How am I going to stay here? How am I not going to leave Boston? I don't remember ever giving air to a different alternative path. Yeah, it was just all right. What do I got to do? What do I have to do to stay here? Where is this extra money going to come from? And I guess it's going to come in the form of loans.
So Meryl took out a private student loan, even though it had an 11 percent interest rate, more than double the rate of most federal loans. By the time she graduated college, she owed $120000. Her minimum payments cost her as much as her rent.
There was definitely this very defeated sense that, OK, this is my lot in life. I'm going to be paying loans for the rest of my life. Not looking at it, not talking about it was my way of just dealing.
And this right here is why I'm telling you Meryl's story when faced with a mountain of student debt. It's really easy to feel defeated like there's no way out. I know a lot of you feel that way too.
And I feel like sometimes it'll never be done, even though I know I'm paying it off more aggressively than others. How much money I was making compared to how much I owed out, was just literally upside down. It's like a chain, like a ball and chain that I'll never be able to get rid of.
Look, I'm not here to tell you that debt doesn't suck, it really sucks. What I can tell you is that even if it feels hopeless, you can handle it. With some careful steps Meryl was able to get things back on track. You're going to be completely debt free by March 2023?
Oh my God, that's amazing. That's way better than 2050.
Yeah, it's so much better than 2050.
So in that sense, I'm really I'm just grateful. Super grateful. Yeah.
A plan is a magical thing, y'all. And today we're going to talk about how you can figure out a plan of your own so you can tackle your student debt. We're going to go through this step by step and leave you with some practical guidance. You can actually apply. I'm Delyanne Barros. Welcome to diversifying a new money podcast from CNN. The minute we decided to talk about student debt, I knew exactly who I wanted to bring on the podcast to help us out.
I am Nika Booth. I am an award winning personal finance content creator. I am also on a journey of my own to tackle six-figure debt, and I'm the voice and creator of Debt Free Gonnabe this little modest personal finance community on Instagram.
She is too modest, y'all. This is a page that everyone must follow. Honestly, if you're on a debt free journey, if you need some money mindset checks, if you need a laugh, get on it. All right. OK, well, we are here to talk about that. I don't know if you've heard about this issue. That's a little interesting in the personal finance community. It's about student loan debt.
I don't know if anybody has talked to you about it, but it's a huge, huge problem, right?
We're in a student loan crisis. There are one point seven trillion dollars of student loan debt. And so, you know, when I say it's a crisis, I mean, it's a crisis because this debt is just looming over the heads of so many people and it's preventing them from being able to do things like get married, have children, own a home, which you know, we talk about is one path, but not the only path to building generational wealth, you know, and they're stifled.
Nika is speaking from personal experience here, she's been posting about her journey to become debt free since 2018. She once owed 211 thousand dollars a mixture of student debt credit card, an outstanding tax debt Nika's really opened on her page. She admits that there have been times when she struggled with mental health and almost given up completely on trying to pay off her debts. Nika's made incredible progress. She's already paid over $77000, but she still has about one hundred and thirty four thousand dollars of student loans left. Over the years she's become an expert at handling her debt, and she wants to pass along everything she's learned, including her mistakes.
Oh my goodness. I'm a cautionary tale. I'll just go ahead and say that like, I'm sure the listeners would be like, Oh yeah, she's definitely a cautionary tale. It's OK. I recognize it too, and I have a blog post where I've shared that my student loans are my biggest money regret, and they are. I do not regret the education that I obtained as a result of the loans. I regret the choices I made with regard to my student loans. So first things first, do not take more than what you absolutely need.
It, right? I was famous for taking the max disbursement every single semester. Well beyond tuition fees and supplies. And I lived off campus, so there was no housing that I needed to pay for. And I did that every single semester for all of the years that I was in school. It wasn't my money, but I didn't treat it that way. Delyanne I blew it. I can't tell you the things that I spent that money on. So don't do that. Don't do what I did.
What do you think led to that? Like, why did you react that way?
I think a lot of it has to do with, one I didn't read the promissory note, and even if I did read the promissory note at that age, you know, growing up, not having money conversations, not really understanding how money works. You've got 17 18 year old who now has access to money and didn't really do anything for it. You know, I didn't. I signed a paper that I didn't read. I didn't understand, you know, that I am basically mortgaging my future and that this money would come due at some point. And I think that's why I think it's I don't know the saying, but it's something about when people get money and they've never had it. You don't know what to do with it.
Hmm. And you know what? That makes sense, because when you look at generational wealth and people who have inherited money out of nowhere, most of them lose it right very quickly because they have not been taught the skills or how to manage money. And maybe they never had it. And all of a sudden there's this big influx of cash and they're overwhelmed by it. And there's such a scarcity mentality that plays into that where you're like this, money may disappear any minute now so I better spend it. I may never see money like this again. Right? And the source is kind of irrelevant. And this is a huge decision that's being imposed on 18 and 19 year olds.
Like what? I had no idea how interest worked. I had no idea that asking for forbearance and deferment all those years after I graduated law school, what that impact was going to have on my balance?
I think a lot of people don't realize that, but I needed the breathing room. So my mistake would be that like all the deferments and the forbearances that I opted for without understanding the real impact on my loans.
I'm glad you mentioned that because that was another mistake I made. I maxed out my forbearances. And the difference, like if no one knows the difference between deferment and forbearance, they're very different. Deferment typically, interest does not accrue when you are deferring your loans. That's usually because you're in school at least half time, or part time you have graduated or left school and there's this grace period, so you're not accruing interest at that time. Forbearance on the other hand, you can just call your loan servicer and ask for forbearance without really explaining why or providing any type of documentation. And it allows you to continue to suspend your payments, but that interest is still accruing. So not only did I maxed out the opportunities for forbearance to the point where I have maxed out every opportunity to actually suspend my payments. But on top of that, the interest was continuing to accrue, so you would get these statements in the mail. But in bold letters at the top, it would say this is not a bill. So when I see that, you know, I'm like, Oh, OK, I don't owe this money, I'm going to just toss it to the side. The thing, though, about forbearance and getting those interest statements, it's not a bill, but it's telling you how much interest has accrued on your student loans. And that's the interest that's going to be now added on to your actual loan balance. And then that interest that's added to your balance will end up accruing interest as well. So my biggest mistake was maxing out my forbearance and not paying those loans when I was financially able to do it because I also didn't have a budget and I wasn't taking the student loan payment seriously and then getting to a point where I've now earned at least. I think the last time I checked, it's like 20000 additional dollars in interest over my original loan balances. It's insane.
It is insane and it's heartbreaking really at the heart of it. But another thing that you bring up is talking about your past money, mistakes without judgment. People look at their past money mistakes, and they judge themselves way more harshly than they need to, and that is so detrimental to your journey. So just giving yourself a break like the stuff is hard paying off debt is difficult, it is probably one of the most difficult things I have ever done. And so, you know, acknowledging that that this isn't something that comes naturally to you, you're probably doing this all on your own and it's OK to feel overwhelmed at times. And if you need to take a break from your debt free journey, take a break.
Take a break. I say rest, but don't stop. Your feelings are valid, but we don't live in the past. Right? The past is the past, and there's nothing that we can do about it. And so I always encourage people who are feeling, you know, shame and guilt and negative feelings associated with those past money mistakes. Acknowledge them, but understand that that stuff happened in the past and that was based off of resources and information that you had at the time. And now we're here today and present and you have a toolbox of, you know, tools that you can use now that you didn't have before. And so we're going to focus on the present and we're going to focus on where we're trying to go in the future.
We're going to take a quick break. But when we get back, we're going to dig into the nitty gritty of how to tackle your loans today. Welcome back to diversifying. I'm Delyanne Barros here with debt slayer Nika Booth when it comes to actually paying off your loans. One of the main things Nika recommends is just making sure you've got a good understanding of what you actually owe. You can't figure out a strategy for repayment if you can't face your numbers.
The first thing in identifying what you have going on and how to begin to tackle them is to know what types of loans you have because there are different loans. And the unfortunate thing about the varying loans is that they carry different interest rates too. And another thing people may not even know is, well, who owns my loans? Like, who is my loan servicer? And I tend to just point people to student aid of which is basically your hub as a borrower where you can see the types of loans you have, the loan details as well as your current loan servicer.
Oh, that's such a good resource. I'm so glad you brought it up. So yeah, I think it's so important to know that even though you owe an X amount like a total amount, that your loans are probably divided up into several smaller loans and there's a little strategy you can use to help pay them off, right? So I know you use this and I used it too, and it's called the debt avalanche. Can you explain what it is and tell people how they can use it too?
Absolutely. So the debt avalanche is one of two common debt repayment plans, and the debt avalanche involves tackling your debt with the highest interest rate first vs. the debt snowball, which is the other common repayment plan where you tackle your smallest balance first, regardless of the interest rate. But why we love the debt avalanche method so much is because mathematically it just makes sense. You end up paying the least amount of interest over the time it takes you to actually pay off the debt because you're tackling that high interest rate balance first.
Yeah, I mean, that's the way to go, and it's going to save you the most money in the long term. And I'm all about that.
That's the whole idea. I like to hold on as much of your money as you possibly can.
I asked Nika how important it is for people with student loans to do that one thing, everybody avoids doing.
How important is it, Nika to budget when you're in this debt payoff phase?
It's important, even if you're not in the debt payoff phase, like having a budget. I mean, if you don't like the B word, call it a spending plan. If you want, like you can call it whatever you want, but you have to have some type of boundary and structure to how you spend your money. And I promise you that especially when you are in this debt repayment phase, being on a budget will feel like you have more money. It will feel like you got a raise. So it's very important, you know, and it's just as important to know what income you have coming in because you know you put the wrong thing in the GPS, you're not going to go to the destination that you want to go to. So it's literally a roadmap for your money. So it's important, especially when you are repaying your student loans, because you'll have an idea of what you can actually afford to pay.
Yeah, I couldn't agree more. I mean, it's not something that has to be as strict. I think it depends on, you know, what you're struggling with. You may have to do it for a few months. Build a habit. But then you can, you know, switch over to like an app that tracks it for you. And you don't have to, like, be living inside of a spreadsheet. Then you can get to the point where you can kind of just eyeball things and you're like, Hey, I'm on track. Exactly. And it's such a great feeling, but it doesn't come out of nowhere. It doesn't happen by accident, and it starts with the almighty budget.
Yes, it does. Yes it does.
You know, the most common question I get, I'm sure you do, too, is, Well, how do I find the money to start paying off these loans, right? And what I tell people, the first thing you have to do is recognize, like, is there an income issue here or is there a spending issue? Because if it's I literally have optimized my budget. I've cut back on all the frills and there is no room. I have no room. I have no extra money to throw to my debt. That is an income issue. Right. We need to increase your income. Whereas if somebody is like, I don't know, I just at the end of the month, I don't know where the money goes, and I don't have anything extra to throw at a student loan. And usually the situation there is we need to tighten the budget. We need to see what's going on. And that's a spending issue. So what do you say to people in the income situation?
Yeah. And a lot of people are in this situation. Unfortunately, you know, if you don't have the income, you've got to find it right because you can't just magically make it appear. So I often tell people to kind of look around them, you know, I've shared this a lot. I love selling the things around the house that I no longer, you know, that I no longer use. And it may seem simple, but you know, just think about some of the things that we've purchased that are, you know, kind of sitting in a corner collecting dust that we don't use anymore. It used to be money, you know, and some of us can actually say it used to be money that we really didn't have in the first place, right? We likely acquired it with debt. And so selling that stuff will give you at least something. You're likely not to get the money that you spent on it originally, but you can get something for it rather than it collecting dust or immediately ending up in the landfill.
But if you're looking for something more long term to have a consistent increase in income coming and sell your services, there are tons of platforms now like Fiverr where you can, you know, do copywriting, proofreading. I mean, there are places that you can teach children in other countries, English. So, you know, I'm not really big on the gig hustle because it can get overwhelming, right? You can gig yourself and be completely exhausted. But I think finding some type of side hustle that you enjoy and that you feel the time is worth it can be a catalyst in helping you repay your student loans and finding that extra income that you need.
Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. I mean, listen, my side hustle turned into a full on business.
Yes, it did. I'm so proud of you.
And it helped to pay off my loans. It turned into a whole thing that I never expected, and I'm not saying that's going to happen for everyone, but it's worth a try. And if you're doing something that you like anyway, what's there to lose? You learn something and you got to do something that you love anyway. I usually tell people, if you do it for free, then charge for it.
Absolutely. And I'm sure people will pay you for it.
I hope all of this knowledge is empowering. But if you're still feeling overwhelmed, that's OK. Nika has one more thing for you to keep in mind.
Don't look at how much debt you owe as a whole. Like, yes, acknowledge it, but it doesn't need to be over your head and in your face every day. So I have this saying, you know, the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time. And what I mean by that is I don't mean to eat actual elephant. But what I mean is you take this huge mountain that's in front of you, right? And you break it down into smaller, more digestible chunks with built in goals. So it's like, OK, extra five hundred this month. And then once you do that, you build up with your side hustle in increasing your income, you bump it up to a thousand dollars. So I think the best way to manage the amount of student loans you owe and the amount of debt you owe and to overcome it emotionally and mentally is to break it down into smaller chunks and set mini goals and build in little rewards after each goal is met.
I love that. I mean, that's obviously a very actionable step that everybody can take. Nika, thank you so much for being so vulnerable online on the episode.
Oh, absolutely. Thank you.
That was Nika Booth. You can follow her on Instagram at Debt Free Gonnabe. It's time for this episode Money Gems we know we cover a lot in every episode, so we want to highlight the best tips so you can take action. So here are the top five gems for tackling your student debt. Courtesy of Nika Booth. Gem Number one, it's time to face your numbers. Get a good understanding of all the different loans you have, the interest rates and who you owe. Nika mentioned a great website where you can do this Student Aid Dot gov. That's going to help you start making a plan, and part of that plan might be Gem Number Two, the dreaded but very necessary budgeting. A budget lets you tell your money what to do. You can decide how much you're willing to pay towards your loans, so you still have room for the fun stuff. Gem Number Three, save forbearance for emergencies. Know that you're still being charged interest and that delaying those payments will cost you money in the long run. Gem number four, if you're about to take out loans, don't take out more than you need. You'll have to pay it all back with interest. Finally, Gem number five, I think this is a good one, no matter what money topic you're talking about. Don't judge yourself for money mistakes you've made in the past. You can't change what's already happened. That's all for today, but this isn't the end of us talking about student loans. This is a huge issue, and we'll definitely be returning to it later in the podcast. Next Monda we'll be back with an episode about one of my absolute favorite topics, investing. We're going to tell you exactly how to get started, especially if you're feeling overwhelmed and scared. Investing can feel like learning a whole different language, but don't worry, I'm going to be your interpreter. We'll cover everything you need to know to get your money working for you because it's not working for you in that savings account.
You cannot save your way into wealth, right? And so if the goal is generational, wealth is to retire early or is to retire comfortably. Right? Saving is not going to get you to the place that you want to be.
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